Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be enough. Not just in business, not just in family life, but as a person.
In my own world, there have been moments where someone has looked at me — or spoken to me — as though I wasn’t enough. Like something about me was lacking. It’s not a nice feeling. But then I look at my animals and realise… they’ve never once questioned me.
They don’t care if I’ve had a bad hair day or if I’ve been quiet for a while. They care that I show up, feed them, keep them safe, and love them.
That’s when it hit me — animals measure “enough” completely differently to people.
Through a Different Lens
The last few months have been a bit of a rollercoaster in my home. There have been high points and heavy points. My children — polite, thoughtful, resilient souls — sometimes get called “stroppy” or “naughty” by people who don’t truly see them.
To me, they’re brilliant. They’ve simply learned to navigate the same up-and-down household dynamics that I do.
It made me realise something about animals too: when a rabbit thumps, or a guinea pig hides, or a parrot screams — it’s not because they’re “naughty.”
It’s because they’re communicating. They’re overloaded, tired, startled, or just being themselves in a moment.
That perspective shift matters. And I think it’s at the heart of both my parenting and my business.
Why Safe Spaces Matter
When I feel unsettled — and lately, I’ve had more of those moments than I’d like to admit — I think about my Nan’s house. The kettle always on. No drama. That quiet hum of safety.
Animals need their own “Nan’s house” too. It might be a snuggly hide, a safe corner, or a pile of fresh hay where they can burrow and feel completely at ease. That’s why I design our forage mixes and treats not just for nutrition, but for enrichment and comfort.
Because when your world feels safe, you thrive.
Reading the Signs
One thing I’ve learned in life — with kids, adults, and animals — is to trust the signs.
That subtle shift in behaviour? That gut feeling that something’s off? You’re probably right.
With pets, it might be them ignoring a favourite snack or hiding more than usual. With people… well, sometimes the signs are harder to see, or easier to explain away. But ignoring them rarely ends well.
Running GGT has taught me that it’s the small, consistent acts — noticing changes, meeting needs early — that make the biggest difference in the long run.
The Weight We Carry
Some days, I feel the weight of everything. The physical weight of lugging forage bags, hay bales, and crates for orders. The emotional weight of family life, parenting, and making decisions for the future.
But here’s the thing about weight — when you carry it for someone or something you love, it feels worth it. I carry it for my kids. I carry it for my animals. And I carry it for every pet whose little nose twitches when they smell one of our blends.
Closing Thoughts
This isn’t just a blog about treats or forages. It’s about why I do what I do, and why it matters to me to keep showing up, even on the hard days.
Because whether it’s for a person or a pet, the real measure of “enough” is simply this:
You were there. You cared. And you kept them safe.
If you want to give your pets something that’s made with that same mindset — care, safety, and a whole lot of heart — you’ll find it here:
www.guineagourmettreats.co.uk
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